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Grandma’s hands

30 Mar

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As Grandma lays sleeping, I hold her hand. Her hands helped shape me into the person I am today. My mom worked until I was 2, and grandma was my babysitter. Her hands held me, fed me, bathed me, diapered me….those hands only spanked me one time. She said that I cried and cried & kept saying, ‘my mamaw panked me – my mamaw panked me!’ She said it broke her heart and she cried worse than me. Those hands made delicious foods and desserts. Whenever my parents, sis & I showed up to visit, she always had three cakes made – coconut cake for me, peanut butter cake, & Hershey bar icing cake. She was very well-known for her cakes with her family, friends & church. The pastor & his family always received their favorite cake at birthdays and holidays. Those hands set the tradition of making 20+ kinds of goodies at Christmas time – date cookies, fudge, orange slice cake, Russian teacakes, chocolate chip cookies, date cookies, apricot kolachkis, and more. Those hands gave me some of the best back scratches I’ve ever had….no one could scratch my back like her. Her hands supported me many times – the first time I ever played the piano in church she was there beside me….I was too nervous to sit there by myself so she said she would sit there with me. Those hands cleaned her house…no dust particle stood a chance in her house!!! Those hands wrote many letters & note & cards to people she loved. Now, her hands stay closed most of the time & she’s lost the ability to use them as she once did. However, it’s okay….they’ve worked hard for 84 years…they deserve a rest. They are beautiful hands & I cherish them!

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Feel the love!

13 Mar

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Grandpa’s desk

10 Mar

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Currently, I live in the last home my grandparents purchased & the last one they lived in…Grandpa lived here til he passed away in 2004 & Grandma lived here until she had to go in the nursing home in June of 2010.

I walked towards the kitchen tonight & happened to pause to look at Grandpa’s desk.

Not much has changed since Grandpa last sat at his desk. In fact, the calendar is still there from 2004. No one really uses it…I don’t think we really want to disturb anything. The photo on the left is my uncle & the photo on the right is my mom.

I can still see grandpa sitting there as he paid bills, balanced the checkbook, and planned his grocery lists. I can also see him sitting there as he checked his sugar levels & then gave himself the insulin shots that were necessary to control the disease of diabetes.

This desk carries the history of my grandparents. Warranties, owner’s manuals, & receipts are some of the things that are in the drawers. These don’t mean much to anyone else but they represent the careful thought & looking that went into making a purchase for their home.

Someday in the future, mom & my uncle will have to go through the desk & decide what to keep & what to throw away. But for now, it’s still Grandpa’s desk.

Is your food providing nourishment for your body?

5 Mar

March is National Nutrition Month and according to www.eatright.org   “National Nutrition Month® is a nutrition education and information campaign sponsored annually by the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. The campaign is designed to focus attention on the importance of making informed food choices and developing sound eating and physical activity habits. NNM also promotes the Academy and its members to the public and the media as the most valuable and credible source of timely, scientifically based food and nutrition information.”

The Free Dictionary defines nutrition as:  1.)   The process of nourishing or being nourished, especially the process by which a living organism assimilates food and uses it for growth and replacement of tissues.  2.)  The science or study that deals with food and nourishment, especially in humans.  3.)   A source of nourishment: food

The Medical Dictionary, The Free Dictionary says: Good nutrition can help prevent disease and promote health. There are six categories of nutrients that the body needs to acquire from food: protein, carbohydrates, fat, fibers, vitamins, minerals, and water.

After reading these definitions, I would venture to say that a lot of people do not think of all this when making food and drink choices.  Food is supposed to be what fuels your body to perform its tasks and at its best while staying healthy and providing you with quality of life.  When one begins to think of food as fuel, it can help one to make better choices.  We are what we eat – and we have the power to choose life or death by what we put into our mouths. 

As I’m sitting on my couch and typing this blog, I see a commercial for cookies that are being advertised as having more calcium than a glass of milk, as much Vitamin C as a cup of blueberries, as much fiber as a bowl of oatmeal, etc.  Do you know where those nutrients are coming from????  A chemical!!! The cookie does not grow on a plant or tree and naturally have those vitamins, minerals, etc….. I’m sorry but it’s better to get your nutrients from the glass of milk, the cup of blueberries, and the oatmeal.  You will feel much fuller if you eat all that versus eating one cookie. 

Point One – get your nutrients from a source that grows on a plant, a tree, a vine.  Packaged, processed food usually means vitamins and minerals that are “sprayed” on them. 

The theme this year for National Nutrition Month is to “Eat Right With Color – Splash Some Color on Your Plate.” The Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics wants you to make healthy choices by incorporating a colorful variety of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins and dairy into your meals every day.

Point Two – When you stick to foods that grow on a plant, a tree or a vine, color is ABUNDANT.  The dark greens of leafy vegetables and certain herbs – the deep rich hues of berries and grapes – the bright sunny colors of citrus fruits – the choices are endless.

Point Three – Be adventurous….don’t stay stuck in a rut!!! Try a fruit or vegetable that you have never eaten before. Try a new item every day….31 days of adventure.  Discovered a great blog written by another Angela (great name, right???) and she’s written a blog about her 31-day adventures in produce.  Check it out and try it for yourself.  http://thecouponproject.com/adventures-in-produce-the-series

The Internet is an abundant resource of ideas, recipes, information – use it to your advantage.  Sit down with a glass of water or a cup of hot tea and plan how you will participate in National Nutrition Month.  Let me know how you do and the discoveries you make while making healthy choices to nourish your body, mind, and spirit.

I am going to continue my Vegetarian lifestyle that I began on January 2nd and will try some bok choy, kale, goji berries, and pomelo.

Join in me in splashing some color into your day and on your plate!

Daily reminder

28 Feb

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Every day when I leave the nursing home, this is what I see…..the Veteran’s Cemetary. I’m reminded daily that life is fleeting and I need to focus on what really matters & determine what kind of legacy I will leave behind. I would like to think that this visual reminder is making me a better person & helping me to live in every moment with passion, purpose, & focus. I only get one chance at this; and, prayerfully & hopefully, I live it to the fullest!

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Hope

27 Feb

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This is one of the blessings after a cold, gray, barren winter. The sun is out today – the robins are singing their happy songs of warmth & sunshine. Flowers are beginning to bloom….some trees are starting to bud. Gives me renewed purpose & hope for the spring season of my life. Today, I’m choosing life, hope, & happiness.

Blowing the whistle on my own life

24 Feb

I’m very passionate about educating, equipping, and empowering women to make healthy choices for their wellbeing….this covers mind, body, soul and spirit.  However, after watching a movie today, I’m having to stop and reflect about what I do, who I am, and what I believe.

I don’t take a lot of time to watch movies but a free Redbox rental prompted me to stop at a Redbox location to pick a movie.  I decided on, Whistleblower.  Whistleblower is a movie based on the real-life experience of Kathryn Bolkovac.  She was a police officer in Nebraska who served as a peacekeeper in post-war Bosnia.  She uncovered a human trafficking scandal and outed the UN for covering it up. If you have not watched it, I highly recommend it.

I wept as I watched it…and the reality of human trafficking disturbed me to my very core.  The very idea that children/teens are sold into slavery in 2012 is incomprehensible.  AND, it doesn’t just happen in other countries….it happens here in the United States. We’re supposed to be civilized….slavery ended years ago, right?

I have two beautiful nieces…Eleighna is 17 and Morgan is 11; and all I could think about while watching the movie is that those girls were daughters, nieces, granddaughters, sisters….. Even now as I type, tears are coming to my eyes because I’ve been made more aware that beautiful, innocent girls are being hurt, beat, and raped right now all around the world.  (I do realized that boys are sold, too – but girls are more at risk and are a higher percentage of the statistics.)  This is NOT something we can pretend doesn’t exist just because we are comfortable and our loved ones are safe.  We cannot choose apathy or complacency.

I choose apathy if I do not do something with the information I learned today.  I went on Twitter to see if Kathryn was on Twitter…did not find her there.  I googled her name and found her official webiste.  I then contacted her and informed her that I watched the movie and would purchase the book and then asked her what I could do on a daily basis to help with this human rights issue.

As a woman, I cannot be at rest or at peace if other women are being sold as property.  These children/teens do not have a choice in what is happening to them.  Many of them are kidnapped/stolen and then sold into a life of sex slavery.  They do not have the freedom/privilege to choose health and wellbeing – someone else is choosing for them.  Their health and wellbeing is being stolen from them.

I cannot just ignore this.  Social injustice…inequality….slavery… My ancestors were fighting against these same issues years ago…..They fought for my freedom…that I would have the same rights as a man….  Now it is my turn to do the same for others.  I’m not really sure what that means for me… Maybe I use social media to spread the word…. Maybe I give of my finances ….. Maybe I give of my time…..  I will have to explore and discover what are my options.

All I know is if I’m as passionate as I say I am about my purpose, my mission, and my beliefs, then I will act accordingly….and that is a choice I must make for my own wellbeing.

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Zumbathon for YMCA Change a Life

19 Feb

The Knoxville Zumbathon was from 2 – 4 today at the downtown Hilton.  However, doors opened at 1 and demos of Zumbatomic, Zumba Gold, and Zumba Toning began at 1:15.  There was no swimming pool in the room so there was video of Aqua Zumba playing so participants could see what an Aqua Zumba class is all about.  Over 300 participants were in the ballroom…and that doesn’t include the 80+ volunteers and sponsors that were helping out.  This Zumbathon raised $10,000 for the YMCA Change a Life Campaign for the East Tennessee YMCA!!!! One of the things that I LOVE about Zumba…..you can fill a room with people, get 20 instructors to get on stage and “instruct” 2 songs, and everyone can follow along and have a great time for TWO hours while burning lots of calories and getting healthy. Now I teach other formats and enjoy teaching them – but what other class can bring all ages, fitness levels, shapes, sizes and ethnicities into one room…even if they have never participated in that class before…and keep them moving for two hours — AND keep them smiling and having a great time???? From the moment the music kicked in for the demos until the end of the last song, the energy was high – the excitement level was intense – and the room was rocking 🙂 The instructors were just as diverse and unique but each one rocked the stage and brought his/her individuality and were truly “superstars”.  Endorphins were high…..heart rates were up…..the workouts were ditched….and the party was joined!!!!  What a way to raise some money!

Zumba Love :)

18 Feb

Zumba instructors having fun

One of the fun things of being a Zumba instructor is you never meet a stranger when you meet another instructor.  It’s cuz we are one big family and there’s lots of love to show.  We’re all so busy with life, classes, etc that we usually don’t get time to just interact, converse, have fun, and get to know one another.  Someone had the clever idea for us to meet at Pelancho’s so we could network, mingle, laugh, and eat.  At this first ZIN night out, there was 30+ showing the Zumba love…..and we were in “normal” clothes and not all hot and sweaty!!!  By the time we were done, everyone knew we were in the building….because Zumba instructors are always ready to throw some Zumba moves!!!  There was a group of people next to us celebrating “Angie’s” 40th birthday…..well, guess what?  We all knew Angie by the time the night was over.  We became part of her birthday celebration and even “performed/instructed/danced” three songs for her and her crowd….and then we sang “Happy Birthday” to Chris.  We do more than just “teach”….we bring laughter, fun, and movement wherever we go.  Life is too short to not live in the moment and spread the love and joy of moving.  Bailamos!!!

16 Feb

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